Kim Namjoon, aka RM, aka the only man who can make an existential crisis sound poetic, just spilled his soul (again) in an interview with Harper’s Bazaar Korea. And honestly? We expected nothing less than a philosophical mic drop wrapped in Dior.
So, here’s what went down: RM graced not one, not two, but three covers of Harper’s Bazaar’s September issue, looking like he just walked out of a high-art gallery and into our lives. And while the photos are straight-up visual therapy, the words are where Namjoon really got us.
Let’s start with the unexpected: the guy who’s performed in stadiums around the globe admitted that photo shoots don’t exactly come easy. Yes, the human embodiment of “mood board” once practiced facial expressions in the mirror to look more natural on camera. And now? He still finds it awkward, but working with a crew he trusts made this shoot feel fun and authentic. Which means somewhere out there is a photographer blessed enough to hear RM say, “This was fun.” Congratulations to that person.

But the real punch came when RM was asked the classic existential question: “When do you feel most alive?”
His answer? A poetic trilogy of identity.
First: RM feels alive when he’s on stage, after releasing an album, singing in front of an audience that knows every word, every beat, every breath. Not just performing—connecting. Like breathing the same air as thousands of people who get it.
Second: Kim Namjoon—the man behind the mononym—feels alive in those quiet, intimate spaces. Talking to loved ones. Traveling to places where no one knows who he is. (Let’s all take a moment to imagine Namjoon wandering a museum anonymously and having a full-on spiritual experience over an abstract painting.)
And third: The Musician. Working on music is his lifeblood. Creating something from nothing, shaping feelings into sound—that’s what lights him up.
It’s not about fame. Not about being a K-pop icon. Not about headlines. It’s about purpose. Meaning. Realness. The things that remind you you’re human, not just a brand.
And let’s just acknowledge the beautiful chaos of this answer. This is the same guy who can break your heart with a lyric and fix it again in the next verse. Of course, his “I feel alive” moment isn’t about clubbing or parties. It’s standing in front of ARMY, making music, traveling like a regular person, and having a deep chat with someone who matters.

Also, sidenote: this Harper’s Bazaar shoot wasn’t just about aesthetics. It’s a quiet celebration of RM being RM. The duality, the depth, the dimpled genius who reads philosophy for fun and still manages to melt cameras on sight.
And in case you forgot—RM is still serving in the military right now. So this glimpse into his mind? A reminder that even when he’s away, he never really disappears. He’s thinking, creating, missing the stage—and probably writing his next masterpiece on a napkin during lunch break.
We already know BTS is planning their group comeback in 2026, and you better believe RM will show up with a full stack of stories, songs, and poetic sucker punches. Until then, we’ll hold on to this interview like it’s a handwritten letter.
Because when RM says, “I feel most alive when I perform,” we know exactly what he means. And we’ll be here—waiting, loving, and maybe practicing our own mirror expressions just to feel closer to him.